What if the entire paradigm of doing things the “right” or “wrong” way doesn’t take you to where YOU are going?
After all, who is defining what is right or wrong?
What if a more useful paradigm is: “Your way” or “another’s way?“
What if the only “right” way is YOUR WAY?
The way that works for you in this now moment!
What if following another’s way is only a temporary step along a journey towards a deeper entering into YOUR WAY?
Like you are drawn to another’s way only because they are doing something that takes you closer to knowing yourself. They help you define more clearly what is YOUR WAY.
They help you sift through the infinite choices and open into new possibilities.
But is there really a “right way” after all?
What if ANY way you take is the “right way”?
Because each direction you take can be used to further refine what works for you and what doesn’t work for you.
For me, it’s about how I feel along that journey.
If I regularly feel: stagnant, dull, not having fun, held back, stuck, trapped, or unfulfilled… I’m not going a direction that works for me.
If I regularly feel: inspired, excited, expanding, happy, intrigued, and fulfilled…
I’m going strongly MY WAY!
But for me it’s rarely this black and white.
It’s some mix of both, sometimes more elements of one side or more elements of the other.
So how do I find my path in the ever shifting unfoldment that is ME?
I keep moving towards MORE of what:
Sometimes I can follow others on that journey for a short while…
But inevitably, my journey is my journey… and some roads are paved and some I must create myself.
I must say… for me… I do seem to enjoy creating new roads. :)
How about you?