Q: What do you do with something you can’t seem to change or untangle?
A: Play with it!
I had a couple clients recently ask me HOW do I untangle things that are complex or don’t seem to change…
and it got me exploring….
How do I do the dance that I do?
What allows me to be successful?
I found these 4 things…
1. I have a good success rate in untangling things…
not because I’m smart (though I am : ) but because I’m PLAYFUL!
When I’m untangling things I get into a playful space rather then a serious one. I’m like, “OOO GOODIE! I get to PLAY now! Weeeee!” Rather then, “oh, how can I find the answer to this…”
My inner kid comes out to play, dream and explore… It’ s a chance to go outside the confines of this reality and have fun with solving puzzles and following energies. So the dance is one of play and imagination.
And when you look at most people’s constructs they have been created by seriousness and doing it right. So the energy of play supports the unraveling of lockdowns!
I’ll often get silly with things… because it amuses me! I have more fun!
And also it has the side effect of shifting energies.
==> How can you have more FUN with clearing things?
==> How can you bring more PLAY into your clearing process?
2. I have a good success rate in untangling things…
because I’m not interested in what is true… only expansive
As an infinite being I know ALL viewpoints are true from some perspective… so I’m not hung up on looking for “the” answer… because there isn’t just ONE answer!
I’m just looking for anything that creates expansion.
What if there isn’t just “one” answer that unlocks things?
What if there are hundreds of viewpoints you can use that will create things to shift?
And you can find some weird-ass-shit that creates expansion… fine, use it!
I’m just looking for more lightness and expansion… that’s it.
I’ll play in ANY perspective for as long as it generates expansion, then I move on to another point of view. No attachment…
And there can be many answers or solutions to any particular thing… so I’m not just looking for “one right answer.” I’ll play in ANYTHING that is expansive… and look for: “What is more expansive then that?”
I’m looking for anything that untangles the polarity that has locked something down. And there can be a variety of components to it.
So it can be like a game of Kerplunk…
I just keep pulling out sticks until I find the one that allows the whole thing to collapse.
==> Where do you allow looking for “the answer” to limit you from going all the way?
==> If you weren’t looking for the “right answer” how much expansion could you find?
3. I have a good success rate in untangling things…
because I don’t give up, I’ll keep digging until I’ve released ALL the polarity I can find around a topic.
How many years, lifetimes, situations, or viewpoints does a person use to create a big lockdown or tangle? Probably more then one, right?
So I don’t stop digging when I find the first thing, I keep going.
I’m looking to release ALL the polarity I can find around a topic to create enough space that a person cannot re-tangle themselves again.
I look for something I call, “the point of no return.”
It’s a sensation I have when I’m working that let’s me know that we’ve changed so many things on this topic, they can NEVER GO BACK AGAIN.
I don’t tell humanoids that… they might take it as a good challenge. :) But it’s my internal indicator that we’ve cleared enough polarity.
If it’s a topic that they have struggled with for a long time and are absolutely determined to clear it all… I’ll keep going until the construct is absolutely gutted.
Then I’ll clear out the foundation, the clutter, any support structures, EVERYTHING!
When I get done… there isn’t a way they can go back. (and I even check what they could re-install!)
==> How often do you stop at the first answer and think you’ve resolved it.
(Then feel like a failure later when it isn’t totally cleared?)
==> What fun can you have in digging out ALL the polarity that locks down a given topic?
(Then really be able to feel successful in your work…)
4. I have a good success rate in untangling things…
because I function from a space outside of this reality… so I’m not bound to the limits or physics of this reality.
I find that there are many topics that can only be released from a story that goes BIGGER then the story on this planet.
Look, we’re infinite beings right?
So why try to look for all the answers from the confines of lifetimes on this planet?
And bodies as an earth human?
I was looking at the propensity a person had to keep inviting entities into their body. So I asked, what valid pattern could be at work from another embodiment?
I had an awareness… planets, galaxies and universes function in predominantly by inviting in beings to co-create within a container.
So I asked…
Truth, how many lifetimes have you had as a Planet? Galaxy? Universe?
Again… it’s my little kid playing in the vastness of possibility. It turns out there was a LOT of energy around Universe. Many of her embodiments are playing in that game. Cool!
I asked: Can we release everywhere you are bringing those patterns into THIS body?…big shifting occured
==> How can you invite your infinite being to come out and play in an infinite playground?
==> And how can you get bigger then that? And bigger then THAT?
Play big… don’t be limited by this lifetime or this planet. Let your imagination go way outside of this reality… use EVERYTHING you have ever known, thought or dreamt about as your playground.
Oh… and here is your homework assignment:
HAVE MORE FUN DAMMIT!